I've counseled many young women who have wasted so much time building something that God has rejected. They fight against the nudging of the Holy Spirit only to end up broken and weak. All because they invested their heart and soul into building up a relationship that shouldn't have started at all. What are you… Continue reading It’s time to build!
Abstaining from premarital sex is challenging in the culture we in live today. In a "do as thou wilt" society all is acceptable except righteousness. When you say, "I'm waiting for marriage to have sex", you're looked upon as a strange green alien from a far off planet. It's no wonder many keep their desire… Continue reading Are you having sex or waiting for marriage?
"When the time is right, I the Lord will make it happen." - (Isaiah 60:22) I am in my 30's and still waiting to be united with the man God designed to be my husband. To be honest, it’s not easy. There were (and still are) times I feel discouraged wondering if there is such… Continue reading Waiting in Anticipation
Meditate on 1 Samuel 2:12-36 & chapter 3 Have you ever taken a relationship for granted? They say, children are a gift from God but did you know, so are relationships. As children of God he sends us relationships, friendships and things as gifts. I recently heard someone say, I hate my house. I've been… Continue reading Make your second chance flourish!
Meditate on 2 Kings 4:8-37 There are so many good looking, satisfying things in this world that are so damaging for you. Sometimes I wonder, the tree of knowledge must of looked mighty tantalizing and appealing for Eve to have defied God. The repercussions of that flesh led decision were devastating, consequences of which we… Continue reading Discerning Godly from faux.
The world says, "love hurts". My past extensive dating experience would agree but it's appropriate to include a much needed caveat. Love hurts when it's not within God's will. God's will is for us to love one another. (John 13:34) Unfortunately, we live in a fallen world where love and pain go hand in hand… Continue reading Love hurts
In part 1, I discussed the ramifications of choosing to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever but did you know that you could be in a relationship with a believer and still be unequally yoked? Discerning this one is a little trickier because most of the time we are so focused on the "is this… Continue reading What if I decide to be unequally yoked? Part 2
As I share my past experiences, I pray my words be seasoned with grace and love. My hope and prayer is that my story touch the lives of women who are in dangerous relationships and on the brink of making a life altering decision like that of marriage. I counsel young women online and the… Continue reading What if I decide to be unequally yoked? Part 1