"This is love for God; to obey his commands. " (1 John 5:3) Waiting is never pleasurable. It's not in our human nature to wait. Patience is a fruit of the Spirit not the flesh so that explains our impetuous ways. We rush God or even worse, take matters into our own hands and impulsively… Continue reading God is waiting on you
Meditate on 2 Kings 4:8-37 There are so many good looking, satisfying things in this world that are so damaging for you. Sometimes I wonder, the tree of knowledge must of looked mighty tantalizing and appealing for Eve to have defied God. The repercussions of that flesh led decision were devastating, consequences of which we… Continue reading Discerning Godly from faux.
Read and meditate: Nehemiah 4 Singleness is a time to actively wait. Wait on God but actively pursue God's purpose for your life. This season is a once in a lifetime kind of season. The Lord is calling you to build up your life in preparation of the future. Your preparation will look different than… Continue reading Build towards your future
The world says, "love hurts". My past extensive dating experience would agree but it's appropriate to include a much needed caveat. Love hurts when it's not within God's will. God's will is for us to love one another. (John 13:34) Unfortunately, we live in a fallen world where love and pain go hand in hand… Continue reading Love hurts
There's a misconception that waiting is synonymous with wasting. Well I guess it depends on what you're waiting for. If you're waiting for the "perfect man", I'm afraid you're going to be waiting for a long time and quite frankly wasting your time. But if you're praying for your singleness and waiting on God's purpose… Continue reading Waiting?
In part 1, I discussed the ramifications of choosing to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever but did you know that you could be in a relationship with a believer and still be unequally yoked? Discerning this one is a little trickier because most of the time we are so focused on the "is this… Continue reading What if I decide to be unequally yoked? Part 2
Question: How do I know if he's the wrong one? If you spend the majority of the time asking God to fix your relationship instead of praising and thanking Him for it... most likely he's not God's best.
As I share my past experiences, I pray my words be seasoned with grace and love. My hope and prayer is that my story touch the lives of women who are in dangerous relationships and on the brink of making a life altering decision like that of marriage. I counsel young women online and the… Continue reading What if I decide to be unequally yoked? Part 1